If I am reading, I am writing, and if I’m writing, I’m better understanding my life, my brain, my gender, my community, and my food. Here is where you can find essays//musings of the aforementioned and support my work, which means you’re supporting my family + my dreams of writing while cooking and feeding my way through it.

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I do a lot of things for a living but what I really want to do is write. Knowing that folx are willing to pay to read my work, and it is work, not only fills my cup, but also feeds my family. The ability to monetize my work in this way makes it sustainable which makes doing this work more accessible to me.

Allowing me the opportunity to write is a gift that I am eternally grateful for, thank you for being here.

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I am a neurodivergent and genderqueer writer, food-enthusiast, sex worker, home-cook, micro-bakery owner//class teacher, and mother//wife.